Posts Tagged: tobias


My Toby monster modeling his new size 6 church outfit.  He’s getting so grown up it’s killing me.  

(really proud of how this one came together in post.  Looks like I *did* learn something in my photography class after all!) 


So, it’s no secret that one of my top five favorite books of all time is Divergent  by Veronica Roth. I read it when it first came out (in one intense all-nighter) and then immediately read it three more times. After sleeping. But only a little sleeping.

I have been very nervous about Divergent the movie. Specifically, I do not agree with the casting of Theo James as Four.  I think the man is a fine actor, but as Four he is ten years too old. Also I don’t think he’s attractive.  That’s my opinion and you don’t have to agree with it. Mostly my complaint is his age. He is 28 and Four is meant to be 18. Bleh. I’m also not a huge fan of Summit Entertainment in general.

So as the movie has loomed near, I have been more nervous than excited. I wanted to see the movie, but I was also dreading it.

I am happy to report that I was wrong. (Except about the part where Theo James is too old.  Seriously.  He’s older than I am and I am too old.)

The movie was fantastic. I won 2 tickets to a prescreening (thanks, Salt Lake Comic Con!) and took my 17 year old sister to see the movie with me. The first five minutes of the film made me scared. But then I got sucked in. And it was an intense ride that did not let go.

I do have some complaints.

  1. The boys cast as Caleb, Peter, Will and Al all look extremely similar. It was SO HARD to tell them apart - especially Al and Will.
  2. The ending with Jeanine and the serum did not make any sense whatsoever. If you think too hard about it, it’s ruined.
  3. They moved an issue with Caleb from Allegiant to this movie. If you’ve read the books, that sentence will make sense. If not, GO READ THE BOOKS.
  4. I loved that, in the books, Four is the responsible one with regard to…physical…ness. He’s the one that sets limits with the make-out session. In the movie, Tris is the responsible one. Taking that bit of awesomeness away from Four hurt my heart a little bit.  
  5. Elle Goulding’s screeching “wooohhhhaaahhhhaahhhh“‘s were so annoying. I am over her and her music. 

Now for the good!

THE ACTING WAS PHENOMENAL. Seriously, top notch all over the place. I was so pleased by the acting. Wow, wow. I had heard that Shailene Woodley was a terrible actress and I am so happy to report that she is AMAZING here. Shows so much emotion - in one very painful scene near the end, her expression just about made me cry. Heartbreaking. Beautiful. SO MUCH GOOD ACTING IN ONE PLACE.

Most of us who want our favorite books turned into movies want 20 hour long films with every detail included. This film, at 2.5 hours, was the perfect length. Yes, there were parts left out. Yes, things were glossed over.

But friends, they tried.  I want that emphasized because if you know what to look for, you will be so happy. So listen up: there are nods all over to the parts they had to cut out for length. In the beginning of the movie, they show symbols from each of the Factions. Like a scientist looking into a microscope for Erudite, an Abnegation taking the hand of a Factionless. Oh, it was so good.

It’s all blurring together for me now, but I know there other parts. I am so proud of the director for making little overtures everywhere. People who are book fans will love it; people who aren’t book fans won’t notice.

I loved that they showed scenes from Amity and from the Factionless. I thought they’d gloss over the Factionless stuff like crazy, but it was very real and very present.

Did I mention how great Shailene Woodley was? And I know there are many fangirls complaining she’s too pretty. Of course she’s too pretty - but she’s not THAT pretty. She’s not movie star gorgeous. She has a chest like a real person. Her eyes are oddly spaced.  I’m insulting a real person and I don’t like it, so I’ll just say - she’s real. I loved that.

Kate Winslet was amazing. The Choosing Ceremony was awesome. The costumes were SO COOL and I really really want a Dauntless outfit. The training scenes, though short, were epic. Every scene in this movie meant something and had something behind it. I’ve never felt a book-to-movie have this same sort of depth.

The soundtrack was so well done, with the exception of anything involving Elle Goulding.

So. For this Erudite Initiate (HOLLA), the movie was fantastic. I will be seeing it again (and again. And possibly again.) It brought out the best of everything I love about the books. I hope it leads more people to the books. As I was leaving, a heard a viewer say to some kind of reporter person that “purists will be disappointed.” You better believe I broke in with “I’m a HUGE purist and I was NOT disappointed at ALL.”

And it was so fun hearing my son’s name on the big screen. I’ve never heard a “Tobias” in a movie theater. Now I have. Booyah.  

(PS: If nothing else, at least now everyone should be able to pronounce “Tobias,” “Erudite” and “Abnegation” correctly.  I predict this movie will do for Divergent-words what the Harry Potter movies did for the pronunciation of Hermione.) 



People of Tumblr, I just have to say: I have never felt more validated as a parent than I do right now.  Thanks for reblogging/liking Toby’s “princess” pictures!  


He’s a hard child to raise (he has severe ADHD and is autistic) but he is tons of fun.  Disneyland was a great adventure for all of us.  My husband and I were nervous that Toby would freak out with all the stuff going on, but he handled it like a champ and loved it.  It’s been a month since we were there and he talks about meeting Snow White and dancing with Cinderella ALL THE TIME.  He also got to meet Prince Naveen and Princess Tiana in passing (they saw him dressed up in his Peter Pan costume and waved frantically at him but he was oblivious.)  I am dying to take Toby to Disney World now! 

Anyway, thanks guys.   

Also, this is by far my favorite picture of all of them :-) 

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My son, Toby (age 5), flirting shamelessly with the princesses at Disneyland.  He dressed up as “Prince Toby” and as Peter Pan and adored meeting the princesses (Snow White and Sleeping Beauty are his very favorite Disney characters.)      


This was my face when I learned about the casting of Four.  Theo James?  Really?  He’s so freaking old! He’s older than ME and I’m 26 so come ON.  Also I always pictured Tobias with deep blue eyes.  Not brown.  

Sigh.  Drew Roy will always be Four in my heart.  Thus ends my fandom whining.


This is my amazing 4 year old, Toby, reciting “‘Twas the Night Before Christmas.”  Toby has heard this poem all of THREE TIMES and he memorized it.  He has the most incredible, terrifying memory I have ever heard of. He’s on the autism spectrum, so every day is a challenge, but then he busts out something like this and it’s all I can do not to bawl my face off at how crazyawesome he is. 

Can he be Four?

Can he be Four?


I took my son Tobias to meet Veronica Roth at the Salt Lake City Library last night.  It was pretty awesome.  She’s even more beautiful in person, and it was really neat to meet her.  I can’t wait till my Tobias is old enough to read Divergent - I had her sign my copies to him :-) 


When this kid grows up, he’s going to have one hell of a literary role model.  

Well, actually, two role models.  Tobias from Divergent and Tobias from Animorphs.  Booyah. 

(See, I’m old (25) and I can still get my fandom on!)  (Don’t worry I’m not going to spam the Divergent tag with my kid any more.  For a while.) 


Hey.  Hey guys.  This is my kid.  His name is Tobias and… he’s Four.

Heh.  Heh heh.